Where to Start: Your First 5 Steps After Getting Engaged

Congratulations! You’re engaged! This is such an exciting season, filled with love, joy, and the anticipation of your big day. While it’s tempting to dive right into the details, taking a moment to focus on a few key steps will set you up for a smooth and enjoyable planning process.

Here are your first five steps after getting engaged:

1. Celebrate the Moment

Your engagement is a milestone worth celebrating! Before you start planning, take time to soak it all in. Share the news with your loved ones, plan a small gathering with family and friends, or simply enjoy some quiet time together reflecting on this new chapter.

2. Set a Vision for Your Wedding

Talk with your fiancé about what you both envision for your wedding day. Discuss the size, style, and season you have in mind. Do you picture an intimate garden ceremony, a glamorous ballroom affair, or a rustic outdoor celebration? Establishing a shared vision will guide every decision moving forward.

3. Determine Your Budget

Money conversations may not be glamorous, but they’re essential. Sit down together and determine how much you’re willing (and able) to spend. Discuss if family members will contribute and set a general budget. This step will help you prioritize what matters most to you both. Check out this blog post about how to avoid mistakes when making a wedding budget!

4. Create a Preliminary Guest List

Before booking anything, draft a guest list. The number of people you plan to invite directly impacts your budget and venue options. Start with a rough estimate, keeping in mind that you can adjust it later as you refine your plans.

5. Choose a Date Range and Venue

Think about when and where you’d like to get married. Do you have a specific date in mind, or are you flexible? Start researching venues to see what’s available within your desired timeframe. Your venue will set the tone and provide a foundation for many other decisions.

Planning your wedding is a journey, and these first steps will give you a solid start. Remember, this is a celebration of your love and commitment, so enjoy the process, and don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it.

Stay tuned for more wedding planning tips to help you bring your dream day to life!